After 11 years failing to conceive naturally and a disappointing
period with fertility treatments, my wife Suzy and I decided to
investigate adoption. Suzy chronicled our journey hoping
to share the experience with our future children; however, after
awhile it became apparent that our
story may serve other readers as well.
A neighbor told us about Sierra
Adoption Services, and after a little research, we became
clients. In a matter of a few months, we were trained,
foster certified, and our home-study was completed.
Next we were introduced to the social workers who would guide
us through the fost-adoption system. The entire process
proved Sierra’s team was highly skilled and well trained
in their mission of helping to build "Forever Families"
for kids in foster care.
We attended several Sierra hosted events and were shown pictures in binders to help us decide on the right match. We originally thought we only wanted the proverbial blonde haired, blue eyed, baby girl; however, once we saw this picture, the more open we were to a "sibling group":
I'll always remember the day we were introduced to Jasmine, who would soon become our first fost-adopt child. We were advised that Jasmine was very shy, so we shouldn't expect her to interact with us. She had a Dalmation Beanie Baby in her hand while sitting on her social worker's lap. When she dropped it on the floor, I quickly picked it up and handed it to her. Then she dropped it again a few minutes later and gave me the most adorable sly grin as I picked it up for her once again. We had bonded that quickly, and to this day, I still have that Beanie Baby on my desk after she out-grew it!
Meeting her biological, younger sister Mikayla was our next amazing adventure! Sixteen month old Mikayla was a tiny bundle with the longest hair (and even longer bangs)! Apparently, foster caregivers aren't allowed to cut the hair of their wards by law!
Meeting Mikayla at her foster home
Both Suzy and I were thrilled that Sierra had picked these two for us to meet, and we both knew that we had found the right children to love and raise as our own.
Once the ink was dry on the adoption papers, the new Root clan
settled into our first three years of family life.
read Suzy's "A Journey to Parenthood" and just loved
it! She described a lot of the same feelings that I have...
I myself do not
have children and am unable to have children. I am single and
I would love to bring a child into my life.
Thank you for
sharing; it was really refreshing to read your journal!
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Jasmine's Beanie Baby
Adoption Day 2003
And then, after returning from a family reunion at Myrtle Beach in 2005, we learned that a 2-month
old biological sister had been placed into the foster system and
was available for adoption.
As before, Sierra got us certified and able to bring our new baby
girl home expeditiously!
Suzy produced the photo show of the 25th Anniversary
Reunion Picnic held October, 2008.
Click to watch the show!
Jennifer Steele interviews Sara Hanson of Sierra Adoption Services and me on Mix96
Suzy and I became advocates for Sierra Adoption Services
and volunteered our time whenever we could. We were invited
to be the Guest
Family speakers at many donor events and fost-adopt training
In 2007, we sponsored a Phoneraiser
cell phone drive that generated $1,218 in just two months!
October 2007 Presentation of Phoneraiser proceeds of $1,218 to
Co-Executive Directors Bob Herne and Kim Rhinehelder by Suzy,
Amanda and Dan Root
Adoption Day 2006
With the help of our family friend, Commander Bill Eveland,
we produced a Phoneraiser Public Service
Announcement intended to air on News Talk 1530 KFBK, but we
were turned down by the new owners.
Apparently all our volunteer work, adoption exepriences,
and my 25 years in the I.T.
industry got the attention of the Sierra Adoption Services
Board of Directors.
In April 2008, I was honored to be voted onto the S.A.S.
Board, and served on the Fund Development Committee helping
to further the mission of our cause.
While serving on the Board, I was proud to be a part of the transition from Sierra Adoption Services to Sierra Forever Families. The name change better reflects the full scope of their wonderful services!
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All the best!
Updated 08/21/2016 and dusted off after years of storage on a backup drive!